I think there has clearly been some communication issues, and some
violations of 'netiquette', which I think are largely accepted by the other
users of this list. I think that users are fine with those sorts of things,
and are often willing to overlook mild issues, and assist others in
learning what went wrong. Other people make similar violations of
netiquette, and typically get a gentle reminder and we move on.

The real issue is that despite repeated, and gentle assistance to fix those
honest mistakes, there is no real evidence that Paul G is accepting the
assistance -- and not only that, he often appears to get angry and go on
the offensive -- which is the cause of the issues.

I for one think that moderating his account, and assisting him in replying
to the right place with relevant responses and getting him straightened out
is the correct response. I think of it like mailing-list training wheels,
intended to assist in learning, rather than a punishment.

Jeff


On Mon, Mar 31, 2014 at 10:42 AM, Mike Miller <mbmiller+l at gmail.com> wrote:

> On Mon, 31 Mar 2014, David Wagle wrote:
>
>  People with these conditions are human beings who need to be treated with
>> dignity and respect [...]
>>
>
>  I don't think that the correct response to people who clearly are having
>> difficulty understanding the nature and purpose of a mailing list is simply
>> to label them "troll" and hit the ban button.
>>
>
>
> I thought it was somewhat worse than that.
>
> Anyway, my point is just that it might help to understand the nature of
> the problem.  Sometimes a person who writes bothersome things might not be
> trying to annoy us.  If a person says things that are not true, they aren't
> necessarily lying, and if someone offers you something that he can't
> supply, he wasn't necessarily trying to deceive you.
>
> So I think it helps to cool everyone down if we consider the possibility
> that this "paul g" is having some mental health problems and not just
> trying to ruin our list.
>
> Mike
>
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Jeff Chapin
President, CedarLug, retired
President, UNIPC, "I'll get around to it"
President, UNI Scuba Club
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