When I was a kid, we lived in Northfield, MN. One of the main
bars/pubs/whatever you call it on Division Street (the main street in
Northfield) is called the Rueb 'n' Stein.

When we lived there, it was the first half of the 1980's, there was a
regular "coffee" every Saturday morning at the Rueb. My dad was one of
the guys who would go to coffee.

Some Saturdays he'd take me with him. Other Saturdays he wouldn't.
Many Saturdays he wouldn't go at all. But it was a regular tradition
and those guys would get together and talk about whatever and then at
the end of the morning they'd all flip coins in some tournament
fashion to determine who would pick up the tab for coffee.

And such was social networking in the Reagan years. I've often thought
of how I'd like to see something like that start up again. Maybe that
could be the TCLUG Gathering? Instead of flipping coins to figure out
who pays, though, I'm sure one of us could write an Android app, so we
wouldn't have to be living totally in the stone age...

-Erik



On Sat, Nov 19, 2011 at 7:52 AM, Ryan Coleman <ryanjcole at me.com> wrote:
> +1
>
> On Nov 19, 2011, at 7:44 AM, J Cruit wrote:
>
>> I'll bring my kids, mandolin, and friendliness to Keegans anytime.
>> Let's just say there is hanging out with people drinking to get drunk
>> and then there is hanging out with folks just having a beer.  Big
>> difference.
>>
>> In any case I think the point is we simply need to change the name
>> from beer meeting to "Drink whatever you like but I'm going to have a
>> beer meeting"
>>
>> On 11/19/11, Yaron <tclug at freakzilla.com> wrote:
>>> On Fri, 18 Nov 2011, Ryan Coleman wrote:
>>>
>>>> Bars are not pubs.
>>> ...
>>>> And you don't have to drink beer. My roommate who is 17 years sober
>>>> comes down with me on a regular basis.
>>>
>>> A few years ago I spent a couple weeks in Ireland. Most of that time was
>>> spent being intentionally lost, in small village kind of situations. When
>>> asked where one might find some food, the ONLY answer was "Down the pub".
>>> Ok, occasionally the answer included "We have two restaurants but they're
>>> only open between May and October". And don't get me started on the answer
>>> to "Any place I can get WiFi around here?"
>>>
>>> My point is, I know what a pub is. I know how it differs from a "bar",
>>> which, granted, my sample-size for is very small.
>>>
>>> Now, I've been dragged to what were described as "Irish Pubs" in the twin
>>> cities. They are nothing at all like pubs in Ireland. For one thing,
>>> nobody was particularly friendly. Second, there were no children. There
>>> were also no people who brought their mandolins from home and were having
>>> a go and didn't mind letting a foreigner have a go even though he defiled
>>> their mandolin by playing guns'n'roses songs on it, but I digress.
>>>
>>> Pubs in Ireland have atmosphere. And frankly if I never go back to one of
>>> THOSE, I'm good.
>>>
>>>
>>> You say your roommate is 17 years sober? I've been sober for 37 years. As
>>> in, my entire life. I've never had a drink, and I've never wanted one.
>>> Drinkers (and ex-drinkers), you guys just don't realise that for some
>>> people, being around people who are drinking is just absolutely not fun.
>>>
>>>
>>> Now, to be clear, I am not trying to convert the TCLUG to the Twin Cities
>>> Teetotalers & Temperamce Users Group. I think it's great that the tclug
>>> has social gatherings and they should definitely continue to happen, and
>>> I'm sorry I went off on a rant on this.
>>>
>>> The only way I can even begin to describe the perspective I have on this
>>> is imagine you used a very uncommon operating system, and everyone else
>>> used Windows, and people would all get together and talk about Windows all
>>> day and you just couldn't understand why people were even doing that to
>>> themselves.
>>>
>>> That's what it's like for me to hang out with people who drink.
>>>
>>>
>>> -Yaron
>>>
>>> --
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>>> /and yet I consider posting rants at 5am to be perfectly normal.
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