progress.  containers can connect to external addresses after adding:
   iptables -A FORWARD -j ACCEPT -o $publ
and containers can connect to other boxes on the private net after adding:
   iptables -A FORWARD -j ACCEPT -o $priv
and containers can be contacted via the private net after adding:
   iptables -A FORWARD -j ACCEPT -i $priv
what's still perplexing is connections from a container to the host
node, whether contacting its public or private address.  some such
connections work, eg ssh, and some don't, eg mysql, nrpe, and ping,
and some are divided yes/no by criteria i don't get, eg pgsql and dns.
 i don't get why they don't all just work.